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Timeline of events
****My Public Statement (video)****
January 2011 ~Matt Dentino introduces himself to me via a mutual friend on Facebook. For a month he tried to speak with me everyday. He kept asking to come and see me, to call me and wanting me to talk to him. Private conversations with Matt Dentino.
REAL CHRISTIAN WOMEN do not coddle men who abuse other women.
Tuesday, February 22th, 2011 ~I agreed to meet with Matt for the first time face to face. It seemed to be a mutually very good day. I had no clue what I was getting pulled into. By the end of the day he kept moving closer and closer to me. He kept telling me how good I smelled then said to me "You know, we have been kissing for four hours?" Proverbs 27:6Faithful [are] the wounds of a friend; but the kisses of an enemy [are] deceitful.Proverbs 27 verse 6 Then Matt jumped up out of the seat, threw off his clothes completely exposing himself and then told me to get into bed. I said "Matt, this is wrong." I sort of froze up. I kept thinking "...but you're a preacher. What are you doing?"
Later, after it was too late, Matt said to me "I just committed adultery, and I have brought you into it." I much later realized that I had been 'seduced.' "The Jezebel spirit can lure one into sexual sin but also into scriptural error and idolatry." This situation smells of JEZEBEL!!
Sex, Soul Ties and Jezebel's Seducing Spirit
Jezebel, the seducing goddess of war, the spirit of seduction, a master of seduction. The word seduction means literally to lead astray. The purpose of the seduction is to create soul ties that can be used to control you.
Paul used the term bewitched to describe demonic influence of soul ties (Galatians 3:1). Bewitched, Greek baskainō, means to be charmed with words, flattering words to capture its victim.
The Jezebel spirit is a prophetic teaching spirit that leads people AWAY FROM TRUTH INTO SIN, rebellion, error and idolatry, a controlling manipulator that usurps authority. Jezebel needs to be in control publically or behind the scenes. If you don’t submit to her leadership she will belittle, degrade, put you down and destroy your life. She loves to steal your influence, spouse, ideas, job, money, innocence, and take credit for things she didn’t accomplish. She makes you feel powerless, out of control, confused with severe bouts of depression and vain imaginations raging against your mind. -Jonas Clark, Sex, Soul Ties and Jezebel's Seducing Spirit-
Read the characteristics of jezebel in men.
Looking back on this I should have kicked Matt out the front door without his clothes on, and then phoned the police. Then maybe he would get some spiritual and mental help but oh, silly me. The cops behave the same way. Genuine Christian men DO NOT take their clothes off in front of women they are not married to, or publicly humiliate women in order to cover up their ungodly deeds and make themselves look good. Genuine Christian men do not force people away from attending church unless they have something to hide.
Saturday, February 26th, 2011 ~Matt was phoning me and emailing me, crying and begging to talk to me. He told me that he could not preach the next morning until he talked to me. Said he was feeling guilty and ashamed. He said that he was seeking counseling at church and he begged for my forgiveness. He told me that it would not happen again ...but it did.
February to March, 2011 ~I believed we were becoming very good friends. We seemed to have everything in common and he was talking to me about making trips together to various places but he had major personal issues going on such as needing a job and new place to live so I spent many days and hours helping him look for a new place to live and for jobs. I even helped him fill out job applications. One evening he phoned me asking to come over so I could help him type up a new resume. I was thrilled that he asked for my help. I wanted to help him. I again had no clue that he would later turn everything around and use my affection and devotion for him against me in such a sinister way.
Monday, March 7th, 2011 ~Matt was expected at my home for dinner. He arrived one hour early unannounced to me. He seemed to be that anxious to see me. He phoned me from the driveway and was very impatient. He met me with a kiss at the door then he wanted to take a bath. He said to me "Oh boy, I have only been here for 30 minutes and I am naked already." Looking back on this it appears that his task was to make a phony public scandal of me as a crazy whore but it did not totally work out for him.
End of March, 2011 ~There were several times when the conversation about going to Marty's service came about. Matt verbally told me once that he had met Marty Layton sometime in the past. I never thought a whole lot about that until much later.
Matt was threatening me to delete our emails saying that he would no longer associate with me unless I deleted them, but I continued to hold onto to them for a week or two. Again being totally clueless of what lied ahead and in an effort to please him I finally deleted some of the emails the first week of April.
Friday, April 1st, 2011 ~I went to Marty Layton's service at Trinity Music City in Hendersonville, Tennessee for the first time. How ironic that it happened to be 'April FOOL's Day'... guess who the 'fool' was? ME! Intrigued by his prophesying to people during the service I walked up to Marty after the service and spoke with him asking for prayer about this situation with Matt and other personal issues in my life. Before I said too much he began prophesying to me about Matt saying that my "hope" was in the right place and that Matt will be back in my life. He said that his feet are like 'bolted down' right now but come the end of June, beginning of July – mid July his feet would become 'unbolted' and everything would turn around and Matt would be back. He said that I was ready for this relationship but he told me five or six times that this was a "timing issue." I started to tell him more but he stopped me and said "Don't tell me anymore because I want to see Matt and be able to tell him that you have told me nothing." So I said "Okay." He stressed that I remain focused on this word from God and he was very convincing to me. I believed him because I believed that God was telling me these same things from the first day Matt and I met. Marty asked me if I could bring Matt to the service and I said "Yes" that he had been wanting to come. Unfortunately this prophecy was not taped because Marty spoke with me privately after the service and no one was there to witness it. I was so over-joyed about everything that I heard that when I went home I phoned Matt and told him how great the service was and that he really needed to come. He promised me that he would go with me the following Friday.
Friday, April 8th, 2011 ~As it turned out neither one of us went to the service. There was another event going on in the auditorium. We did not realize that Marty’s service was still going on in the conference room next door until it was too late. So we planned to go together the following Friday. Since we did not go to TBN we decided to have dinner at my house then he would go on to his rehearsal. Trouble started when he arrived late and with laundry unannounced. In front of others he threw a fit that his laundry was not done when he wanted it and then he falsely accused me of saying terrible things about him in front of everyone. He was never able to clearly state what he claimed he heard me say. He seemed to be picking a deliberate fight for no reason then he stomped out of my house refusing to be reasonable. Over the weekend we talked but he was becoming more distant as the days passed.
Friday, April 15th, 2011 ~A couple days before this Friday Matt became angry with me again and shut me out of his life. After the service I told Marty this and he said "Just keep focused on the prophecy and trust God." And I kept trying to believe this. I wanted to believe this. Between mid April to mid June I had no contact with Matt whatsoever. Marty would just tell me to stay focused on the prophecy because "it’s gonna happen" he would always say.
Cory Dycus, TBN employee, makes it a point to tell me that "Marty has friends in high places" he said. He said that Kim Clement was responsible for getting Marty in TBN. Why did Cory make a point to tell me this? Attempt to 'intimidate' me? Why should I care? I have friends in higher places than Marty. I have Jesus who is King of Kings. When judgment day comes where will Marty be?
Friday, June 10th, 2011 ~Matt ran into my mother at the TBN gift shop and he told her that he had been praying for me.
Friday, June 17th, 2011 ~Matt came to see me while I was walking the grounds at TBN. He was obviously disturbed by God about me. He pulled his car up beside me while I was walking and said "Would you like to talk?" Then he parked his car beside mine, got out and walked around my car studying it like he had never seen it before. Under his breath he said "I thought you had a black car?" I was very disturbed by this. This was the first time that I began to recognize signs of Matt being "programmed."
Hypnosis Comes Of Age
People are using hypnosis for everything, including to manipulate people and relationships.
I performed it by saying to the hypnotized Captain: "Until further orders from me, only Colonel Brown and I can hypnotize you. We will use a signal phrase 'the moon is clear.' Whenever you hear this phrase from Brown or myself you will pass instantly into deep hypnosis."
...they learned to apply post-hypnotic suggestion to... SPLIT certain complex individuals into multiple personalities like Jeckyl-Hydes. -G. H. Estabrooks, PH.D., Hypnosis Comes Of Age-
Read more about the dangers of hypnosis and how hypnosis affects changes in behavior.
My car was white but Marty Layton drove a black car. As we began talking he stated many things along with making a comment that TBN was a nice place to walk. After having sought out to gain my affections, he was now bothered by my feelings for him so he said "So this is why I need to see you…" but he repeated a thousand times to me that we would NEVER be a couple as if he were trying to convince himself of something. I kept repeating "Why can't you just let things be as they are?" but he could not understand what that meant. It just seemed to me that the normal thing to do would have been to talk to me like a normal person. I expected him to sit with me and my friends occasionally at church and even go out with us after the service for a snack. To hang out and laugh with friends. Just have fun and whatever happens then let it happen. But instead this conversation went in circles. We mentioned meeting up at the service that evening but then he kept getting upset. Later at this evenings service I told Marty about Matt coming to see me and what he said to me. Then, I saw Matt outside during the service walking the grounds before he finally walked into the service next door.